Day 5: International Women’s Day and a new House handed to Satani

Day5 Build: Today was perfect. We started the day by meeting with our interpreter from 2011, Kreeti and we heard how fabulous she is going with study and life. She is doing a masters in rural development and I still believe she will be a future leader of Nepal.
When we arrived at the crossroads before we walked down to our build site Sophie from Habitat had organised rickshaws to travel down to our house (usually a 5 minute walk away) I even got to have a go on one. At the house site we were all very excited to get started to get started but 5 of our team were still on the other bus which had suffered a flat tyre. Our bus had returned to pick them up. A remarkably fast trip apparently as it seemed to take no time at all. At the house we were busily finishing the final piece of rendering and painting painting painting.

Peter's Flower

Our artist in residence Peter even painted a lovely Nepali flower design.

Day 5 Dedication Ceremony
After lunch we visited the other houses and it was great to see the quality of all the houses – awesome.
The Dedication Ceremony was perfect – facilitated by Meghan we introduced ourselves with our Australian name and our Nepali name, mine was (of course) Parabati a Hindu goddess. Then we all said a word or phrase, Mine was women’s strength. Especially on International Women’s day I felt it appropriate to celebrate Satani’s and her Daughter in-laws strength to carry on in such adversity. Other words were honour, dignity, happy, family, home. Geoff had made a celebration cake and lit candles which we sang Happy House Day to and then Satani cut the ribbon.

Satani Ribbon Cut

She, and the rest of us, were very emotional. We left a photo of the team. As a goodbye they put Tikka on our foreheads and presented us with a bouquet of flowers. As the team leader I received a diorama of religious significance which was very touching.

Rupa Pen Satani The Finished house and our Mason
It was hard to leave and say goodbye, but eventually we had to and return on the bus, but at least we leave with the pride of delivering a home to a special woman on a special day International Women’s day. There is so much more still to be done in Nepal but I now that in this week we were one step closer to having a safe and decent home for everybody.

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Today on our Habitat for Humanity house build we started rendering the cement on the bamboo frames that we have been busily preparing over the previous days. The team allocated work quickly and got stuck into sifting the sand, mixing up the render, pinting the slurring(bonding agent) on the bamboo and then slapping on the render on the walls. We were quite pleased with our progress by lunch when we then went to the SOS Children village to learn from the local Community Development leaders Geeta, Babhita and Tara.

They told us about family selection for houses, education for water, sanitisation and health. They are all very passionate about what they do and they are the bridge between Habitat for Humanity and the local people. They are employed by SOS Children’s foundation in Nepal. They select families who are in desperate need of a house where especially the women and children will benefit from the hand up.

They talked about the major problems being health issues related to good access to water and sanitation. There are extraordinary figures attributed to deaths related to poor sanitation. Through our fundraising they have been able to install tube wells and toilet systems and along with this education on washing, cleaning, brushing teeth and using clean water. This absolutely life-saving activities that are going on.

After this we went to visit our 2011 Home partners. It was fantastic to see how Tara has thrived since we left. She has decorated her house and has extended it with corrugated iron out the back for a kitchen and storage. She was so proud to show us what she has done and what her children have achieved. Her eldest daughter is finishing school this year and wants to go on to become a nurse. Her dreams are still the same, to have a good house for her children to thrive and be educated. All her family looked so healthy and confident, it was great to see. Tara said that she had dreams that she would see us again and had worked extra hard so that she could have the day off and have the house all neat and tidy. She was proud to show us the photos from the first build, the photo of her deceased husband, her shrine to the Hindu gods and all her photos and belongings. A very House proud woman. The garden is looking terrific, with decorative flowers out the front and tomatoes growing out the back. Housing is going up around Tara’s house, it is great to see the prosperity in her neighbourhood. It was truly worth the visit just to see the change and impact a safe and decent house has had on Tara and her family.

I asked Anitha, the architect and urban development chief from habitat for Humanity, how many more we need. She said 73,000 houses per year need to be built. So it seems I might be back. J

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Day 4 – Sifting, Mixing and Rendering

Essentially today is about getting as much rendering done as possible so that we can finish and paint. So today the team was looking to optimise the process at every step of the way. We recruited the family and neighbours to help sift. I reckon we went through a tonne of sand over the past two days and my muscles are saying that I have done an awful lot of rubbing sand through the sieve and putting up render.

It was hot day today too so we were doing everything to find some shade. The team members that were doing the rendering inside were hot too, 6 all working in the confined space inside the modest house. But today we got a lot achieved. And even got up to painting the front and sides with an undercoat in preparation for the colour and decoration. We asked Satani if we could paint a flower on the front of the house in the traditional style. She had an interesting answer she said that of course she doesn’t mind and she doesn’t mind which flower it is because this house is as much ours as hers. She also said could we stay a little while longer and help with some other things. I must find out tomorrow what those things are – I wonder.

It was a long and grubby day and we are all have high anticipation for finishing tomorrow, visiting the other houses and handing our house over to Satani at the dedication ceremony.

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Day One & Two HfH Building in Nepal

The week started with a rise at 6am breakfast and on the bus at 7. But it is Nepal so it arrived at 8am. No matter we drove the one hour to Itahari where we were welcomed with flower garlands and red Tikka.

The colour and sounds were awesome. It was a delightful way to be welcomed to pour house partners community. Next was a safety demonstration and then a walk down to start work on our house. First off we introduced each other and then began the process of building a home for Satani. Satani is old and she has been living on a make shift shelter by the banks of a creek for many many years. Her family does not come to visit for the shame of where she lives and she wishes to have a home for the dignity and to be a welcome place to host her children and grandchildren. Everybody deserves a decent home and it is great that we can help this gentle lady have a safe home so that she can be above the flooding waters, safe under a tin roof and have a lovely home to sleep, have her family visit and have some dignity.

The first day was getting everyone working together and making some progress on the house. Splitting bamboo and removing the bumps is the first job to then weave the bamboo through the frames of the house. It is all very hard work and blisters, sweat and aching muscles are the order of the day. Work went on for two days on this activity interrupted with a beautiful Nepali lunch and conversations with the local people including our beautiful house partner. Splitting bamboo is tough. You do it with the Nepali knife called a Kukri and use a hammer or a Bamboo mallet to make the bamboo lengths as pliable as possible so you can bend and weave it through the frame. Once split and cleaned the bamboo is cut to length and then weaved. Weaving is hot, hard work as well. Bending, pushing, shoving and persuading the bamboo to make a line on the frame. 100’s if not 1000’s of bamboo lengths are used on the house which becomes the base for the render to stick to.

At 4:30 we usually pack up and get on the bus, but because of one of the houses were a little behind House3, my house, came to the rescue and helped them catch up. Meaning that we didn’t get on the bus till late, hit peak hour Nepali traffic and didn’t get home till 6:30 but we came home to a beautiful dinner – including Saag Paneer – my favourite.

 I am exhausted, tired and satisfied that we are making a difference and building a house for a beautiful lady.

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Kathmandu to Biratnagar and Welcome dinner

On this day I met up with the whole gang that have returned from the last build. Joh Sergeant, Lianne Manley, Kate Neuss, Janette V, Lisa, Cilla and I all met at breakfast at the beautiful Courtyard hotel and then after went for a quick stroll through Thamel to pick up some last minute supplies and indulge in probably the last great coffee for a week at the Roadhouse restaurant. Despite the name they actually do a great coffee.
Next stop was the airport to catch a flight to Biratnagar. This is where I do truly appreciate the efficiencies and organisation of our carriers in Australia. Never will I say a bad word about Qantas again after a four hour wait for our delayed flight.
Nevertheless we arrive to a warm welcome at the Hotel Xenial in Biratnagar. Sophie and Alex were there to greet & organise us and it was absolutely fantastic to see the 60 odd people that have arrived for this very special project. The Hotel is quite luxurious in comparison to the eastern Star Hotel of 2011. The room I am sharing with Joh is neat, clean and has a balcony overlooking an almost clear blue pool. 😊
After a short rest we were on the bus to the welcome dinner. Sophie and Alex were being very cagey about whether we would meet our old house partners from 2011. There was a lot anticipation about whether they would be there tonight. As we walked through the entrance of the venue, there were our new House partners who presented us with a lovely scarf and a Namaste. Next over a little rickety walking bridge were another group of people and there in the crowd was Tara shrieks of delight from all of us, as we hugged, Namaste’d, took photos and hugged and communicated in the best way we could how happy we were to see each other. Tara looked so happy, so healthy and miraculously 10 years younger than the last time I saw her. It so great to see the really amazing effect a house has been for Tara. I thought that she looked great when we left 2 years ago but she and the other women looked fantastically happy, self-assured and even assertive. We did some dancing to the local music and Tara was up there in the middle showing us all how to turn your wrists and move to the sub-continental beats.
I cannot describe how happy, proud and quite frankly relieved I was to see the ongoing transformation of this strong woman and the other women that were part of the original group of house partners. I now truly understand the real ongoing impact a safe and decent house can do for a family. Tonight was a great opening to the week and set the scene through the wonderful speeches from Sophie, Alex, Aruna and the others. If this is any indication of the week ahead I am positive we are going to have a seriously great week.

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Kathmandu Day 1

Pen

Kathmandu is offensive to the senses. Smokey, noisy and dusty. It is the hub where all the tourists land and get organised to go on their trekking tours to Everest, Annapurna, Pokhara, Upper Mustang and further afield. So it is filled with trekking companies, supply shops and souvenir merchants. While my main purpose of visiting Nepal is for the Habitat for Humanity build the travel logistics meant that I had a day off.

As this is my second visit to Nepal I decided to get out of Kathmandu on a bicycle. With a Himalayan Single Track cycling guide we navigated the hectic Kathmandu traffic to get out of town and into the country side to visit a few temples. The Kathmandu traffic while very chaotic it does seem to work. One of the billboards on the roundabout said “drive to care not to dare” it sort of made sense in this peace loving country. While they do drive on the left and understood rule was to turn right using tight turns. It took some gumption to confront the oncoming traffic but as the sign suggested they all gave way and just let us through.

The climb up to the first temple, was a steady climb at first then some nice downhill and then 2 kilometres of steep uphill. At the beginning of the steep climb I left my gear change a little late and the chain came off the ring and I was too slow getting my shoes out of the cleats and over I went. A little skin off and a couple of minor bruises and I was back up the hill. Steady slowly and with heavy breathing my guide and I finally made it up the hill. A nice hot pot of tea was welcome at the top as Kishor and I sat down for a little rest and a chat.

Kishor

I think he was a little surprised with my cycling ability but he said that most Australians were good cyclists. He could beat me up the hills no problems but on the flat with my lighter bike with better gears I was out in front although with no idea where I was going so I made a few stops for a photo. Kishor is a nice young man who had a great job; riding every day. He told me his family’s story. His mother can hardly walk due to poor health and safety at her old work environment – she was badly burnt. His dad has a chicken farm, his brother has a flower nursery and his sister is a teacher. He hopes for better governing of Nepal where investment in local industry is supported over other influencing factors being the India and China controlling most of the trade routes in and out of the country. Nepal can only get Diesel/Petrol through India and because of this they have enormous control on what Nepal does. Nepal is the second wealthiest country in terms of water production but China and India takes most of it. Without strong educated leadership this country will continue to languish but Kishor is hopeful that things will get better but he also sees the success of friends that have moved overseas.

Mountain Temple

Anyway we were here on top of the mountain to see Changu temple, one of the oldest Hindu temples in the world dedicated to Vishnu. Apparently many years ago there was an earthquake while many temples were destroyed this was one of the few that survived. It is wedding season and there were a few well-dressed Nepali men and women walking around very excited. One thing that blows me away about these ancient temples is the artistry and workmanship that goes into them and although this is a poor country with few riches the temples are in extraordinarily good condition.

Next was a lovely long downhill into Bakhtapur village. Riding to care not to dare and of course therefore there were no accidents.

Temple Dog Lion

Bakhtapur is a Unesco world Heritage Village, with an enormous Durbar square and many Hindu temples. Very cool and again great masonry and copper work. So much so I am now inspired and I am on the hunt for a big brass bell. I took some great photos here. Of their gods, guards and protectors. The square is one of the largest in the Hindu world. Bakhtapur is also known for its pottery square.

Pottery Square Bhaktapur

It was awesome seeing all the pots lined up to dry and then being fired in the pit kilns. The whole process seemed very co-operative and amazing given that everything is just left out on the street.

Next stop was Pashupatinath. Another Hindu temple area, where the focal purpose here being funerals by the river. The main temple appeared rich and vast but was off limits for non-Hindu. Next door was a sanctuary for deer, but due to the hot weather the poor deer were hiding under the shade.

Then Kishor said something that was very interesting he said that I made very good use of my time and that we had done more temples than he expected. I said did we have time for lunch and he said because we would need 45 mins to return to Thamel, where the shop was that we would not have much time. So I said that we would then have to make it in 20. He smiled and said ok. We slipped streamed our way back along the crazy roads of Kathmandu and he took me down some short cuts which were more like mountain biking than we had done in the country. Down alleys across ditches beside creeks. We made it back with plenty of time. A slice of pizza and an espresso to finish the afternoon and a day well spent.

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At this point in time I am in transit in Hong Kong. Making the long journey to Nepal means that you have a lot of time to think and reflect. I have often thought over the past few weeks I am too busy to do this or I have too many commitments to make this happen. So why I am doing this trip a quarter of the way around the world to build houses for women who need a hand up in Nepal. Apart from the fact that without our help these women would still be living on the poverty line with hardly a roof over their heads and the families that they are bringing up would not be getting the best start. We need to do something to break the cycle, to give these families some hope and give them the potential to be educated and have a bright future. For me I feel incredibly lucky. Lucky to be born in a country where women have equal rights and to be born into a family where I have been given every possible opportunity. I also feel very fortunate to have married a very understanding man that has supported me in all my endeavours and we have created a beautiful home and environment to raise our family and give them all the opportunities to have a rich, balanced and fulfilling life. But why fly all this way? For me it gives me a chance to focus for a week on doing something good if not great. I have found in the past that a small effort say weekly or monthly just doesn’t work for me. But if I can get help from those around me I can dedicate the time, focus and energy to a week long piece of work and be someone for others for that period of time.

I have a strong sense of serving others – it might be growing up with Mum and Dad often being out and about looking out for others whether it be in CWA, Meals on Wheels, CFA, Rotary or youth theatre. It is also through my beliefs that it is something that I just have to do. Fortunately, coincidentally or purposefully (whichever way you look at it) it makes me feel good. I also want to be a great role model for my kids: Max, Charlie and Ed. I want them to see their parents helping and serving others as just part of life, it shouldn’t be something that is a chore or a drag. Anyway I know we all have something to give and I am glad that this one week of my year I can give to one woman in Nepal and through our fundraising make a difference beyond this through the awesome work of Habitat for Humanity. Next stop Kathmandu. KA192 boarding Gate 2.

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Pen with her new T-shirt and Hat

Pen with her new T-shirt and Hat

Look guys my hat and T-shirt arrived in the mail. I am all ready to go build houses for people that need a Hand up in Itahari Nepal. My bags are packed, my Nepal Visa organised and the Donation fund target reached and it is still climbing. I am looking forward to meeting all the other volunteers in Biratnagar Nepal where our accommodation is. We are all going to be building houses with Habitat for Humanity – it is going to be a really rewarding experience.
If you still want to donate you can do it on my donation page – click on my photo.

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I didn’t know vegan could be so tasty

So after all my doubting and jesting about how the vegan recipes could be nothing but disgusting I am herby surprised, delighted, amazed and flipped out. Tonight I have tasted, consumed and gorged on Vegan cupcakes, yes you heard correctly vegan cupcakes. So my live in niece has just recently been given the book vegan cupcakes take over the world and she has turned into a cupcake makcing machine. And I don’t mean machine like it’s mechanical, I mean machine like it is magic. Magic cupcakes – They were lime with Lime frosting – how can it taste so great when it is dairy free – who nows, who cares when a cupcake makes your day.
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Managing People 14 months in

I have been in quite a rut having not posted for a little while but I think it is time, so here it is –
I am reading a book called Cubicle Commando, I identify closely with what this book talks about.
 
Top Ten things I have learnt in the last 12 months that are mentioned also in the book:
  1. What sort of a people manager I am
  2. That it is not as hard as I thought; like motherhood, People Management is not much different 😉
  3. If you give people a clear mission/goal/vision they will achieve amazing things – beyond your vision
  4. Story Telling is a powerful tool to give people confidence, grounding and inspire
  5. Being genuine, authentic, real, natural is absolutely what it is about
  6. Everyone (even individual contributors) should feel empowered – it is unfortunate that some people do not
  7. It takes all types, personalities, experiences, backgrounds to make a great team
  8. Never under estimate the value of the time taken to have a coffee with someone
  9. I get anxious at work if I do not exercise – I don’t think this was in the book but it was on a health show on Monday night
  10. Recognition and reward is easy, appreciated and often forgotten
So there it is.
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